Treasure 
Adultery is a thief that creeps in slowly to steal and destroy. It usually starts with mind betrayals that slowly but surely crack relationship foundations.
It is purely infidelity when you ask yourself this simple question. “Would I act the same with this person if my significant other watched?”
If the answer is “NO,” you are crossing the line and racing into dangerous territory…A minefield!
You cheat when:
You lie to your partner or flirt with the opposite sex. They could be your co-workers or even your old flame. Indeed, most people have a relationship outside of marriage with buddies; they share their deepest thoughts but be “CAREFUL” with whom you share your thoughts, as not all who pretend to be your friends are.
Again being selfish constantly in a relationship with your time and being emotionally dishonest is also considered infidelity.
Cut off these enemies in your marriage before they get out of hand. It isn’t worth it.
DON’T BE DECEIVED!
LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP!
REKINDLE YOUR RELATIONSHIP SPARKS (the good old days) with your spouse.
CUT OFF THE DISTRACTIONS PERMANENTLY. IT’S NOT WORTH IT.
Cheating makes you form destructive habits and can destroy your marriage… So be wise and avoid it.
I use this space to share real-life accounts and experiences of real people with you. It may inspire you. It may encourage you. It may simply amuse you, but whichever it is, I’m thankful you are taking the time to be here.
Please what is “old school flame”?
Old school flame is old school boyfriend or lover. Most of them resurface when they are no more needed and in most cases, people tend to be carried away which is absolutely wrong.
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Wow! Nice one Treasure. Am impress! Keep up to it
Thank you so much!.
Nice one (Nkem) keep it up.
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Nice write up dear
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A wonderful write up
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Wow! An inevitable Truth that can not be overemphasis
Ride down Mummy.
“Remember from where thou has fallen”, the oath you took on the alter, how faw? Note: A broken covenant is a broken marriage.
Just a fact and not a fiction.
True talk brother.
Great ,writing .Its a must to read for every spouse. Thanks it will make us to be more care full .Keep up the writing you may not know the good you are doping to the nation in general and to the men in uniform in particular. Count me as one of your fan .lf you you wouldn’t mind l wish to send you a link to a writers platform, Writing To Inspire (W2 I)that l belong to.You kind of writing is most welcome there
Thank you very much indeed,I’m much obliged to you.
There are so many ways of cheating on your partner without realizing it, but mostly before it is done it would have passed thru many stages, the conception of the idea, planning the execution,preparing excuse or defense if caught at it, having doubts whether to go on with it or not and execution if one now falls into the temptation of being “adulterous”. My take, most times people who cheat on their spouses do so knowing what they are doing.
You’re absolutely right.
Interesting
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Nice write up
Thank you and thanks for stopping by.